Sunday, February 10, 2013

Open Seas


For as far as I can see there is only water. It is a deep blue sprinkled with white. The sky is powdered blue also littered with white and purple clouds. The sun hangs low on the horizon, climbing its way to its majesty. It is warm and I wear little, sipping coffee and watching. There is no sign of land in any direction.

The boat has a gentle sway as though it dances to a rhythm that only it knows. I love the gentle rolling motion. Even in rough waters I have sea legs. Once I went “bow riding” in a high speed boat, slamming into waves, as I held onto a rope looking like a cowboy roping the ocean, dripping with salt spray and listening to my friends say, “Mike’s crazy!”

May be I am.

I’ve certainly never been a strong advocate of conventionality. I think we’re all finding our way in life and there are lots of different paths. There is no one, right way. We do the best we can, either finding our rewards … a happy and satisfying existence … or we don’t. I leave whatever happens next to God.

Last night, Sarah and I played a new game! How many people can you fit in a hot tub? We didn’t mean to play it but like life, sometimes things just happen. It had rained and there was a chill in the air, so we climbed in the bubbling water and settled in beside an elderly gentleman from Florida.

Within minutes, others followed our cue. In half-an-hour, we learned the answer. Twenty-three!

(The reason for the odd number was an old Jewish guy from New York City wearing beads and a Cowboy hat determined to tell everyone that he knew Janice Ian who sang “At 17” a thousand years ago. We gave him his own space in the pool so the rest of us were a bit crowded.)

Before the ship left Port, we had new friends. Staying in the pool until eight o’clock, we dressed and got ready for dinner. Sarah was stunning and I wasn’t the only one who thought as much. A man named Frank did too and he went out of his way to let her know it!

Afterwards, we meandered around, took in a show before stumbling to our cabin and falling in bed. She’s still asleep in the bottom of the boat while I sit high sipping coffee, far away from the cares of the world.

“You’re going again?” my Mom admonished when I told her we were setting sail. “You just got back!”

I had a most difficult time fingering out what her point.

“I don’t know Mom,” I tried to explain “it just time to go. Sarah and I have missed out on so much so we’re making up. It just seems like the things to do.”

“You Father used to do that!” she fired back. “He’d come home and tell me where we were going.”

“Aren’t those precious memories Mom?”

“Well,” she faltered, “they are now but they weren’t then. We couldn’t afford it.”

I laughed. “Well, I’m glad I got that from Dad then.”

Mom softened. “You and Sarah have a good time,” she said.

And we are.

There’s only so much life left and we have so much to do!

We’ll worry about everything else later.